My Funny ValentineI tend to ignore Valentine’s Day. Not because I am bitter or lonely or any of the other shit bombs smug loved up couples like to throw at…Feb 14, 2023Feb 14, 2023
Am I all in? Are you all in?When dating, we don’t ask enough (or any) clarifying questions. Phony think pieces on the interwebs tell us to put up and shut up and don’t…Aug 11, 2022Aug 11, 2022
Liminal SpacesA liminal space is a threshold between what once was, and what is yet to be. I’m in a liminal space. They say, everyone at least once in…Apr 22, 2022Apr 22, 2022
Bennifer Mark 2.0Last week, a story broke that renewed my faith in love at second sight. I have always been suspish of love at first sight and couples who…Apr 16, 2022Apr 16, 2022
Type A? Alpha?I asterixed post pandemic, because the numbers of Covid infections and it’s itinerant variations show that we sure the fuck not are…Apr 16, 2022Apr 16, 2022
UntitledIt’s taken me 6 attempts to write this. At first, it had a different colour — fiery orangey/red, but I was bored of writing it and felt…Apr 10, 2022Apr 10, 2022
GruntledGruntled is not a weird sex thing. It is in fact the opposite of disgruntled. I was today years old when I learned that gruntled means…Apr 8, 2022Apr 8, 2022
The WagonI’ve been celibate for 9 months yo. 9 months of riding the sexless slash any kind of physical intimacy wagon. Is it a big deal? For me —…Apr 6, 2022Apr 6, 2022
Is this copaceticCopacetic = is this in excellent order? Is this very satisfactory?Mar 29, 2022Mar 29, 2022
Dear SirA few days ago I received this cute little riposte to my ‘Violent Epiphanies’ story from a dude going under the oh so clever pseudonym of…Feb 1, 2022Feb 1, 2022